Sometimes more is not better; but it seems that consistency is key to a happy sex life.
There is a lot of pressure in today’s society to get laid. The more you get laid, the happier you will be apparently.
Not so, says a study done by the Department of Psychology at the University of Toronto in Ontario, Canada. While sex is very important for couples to feel happier and grounded in their relationship; daily or even every-other-day is not necessary – in fact, once a week is plenty.
This study shows that having sex at least once a week contributes to relationship happiness, but it also shows that couples having sex more then once a week are not necessarily happier either. On the other hand, the study did show that couples that have inconsistent or have stopped having sex altogether are not as happy and not reaping the benefits of a enough fulfilling sex.
Another key to knowing if you are having enough sex is consistency; if you and your partner have sex every two weeks on a date night, and you are happy and it works then don’t change a thing! However; if you are struggling with how much you have sex, you might want to consider some ideas like planning sex, doing it anyways (get the engines started), and being more open minded.
To read more about this interesting study, and to find out some great ideas to increase your sex life click here to the full CNN article.
And if you want to chat about sex, your perversions and taboo fetishes feel free to call.